It is that time of year. Those of you who have experienced any type of college education know what I am talking about...the week before spring break. Also known as the week that all midterm projects, tests, papers, etc. are thrown into. Those of you who have experienced parenthood know what I am talking about as well...the dreaded flu season. Also known as the week that all of you children will wake in the middle of the night with projectile vomiting, exploding diapers, and/or any number of whiny aches and pains and a strong desire to do nothing more than cling to you side for at least 24, usually 72, hours straight. AND in what is my traditional "luck of the draw"--if you want to call it luck--these two weeks seem to always...yes, i said ALWAYS fall either back to back or on top of one another. It may be God's way of trying to prove to me that procrastination may not actually be the best way to cruise through my doctoral program...
Anyways, what this basically means for my family and I is that I, the student, is getting very little sleep and many, many hours in front of computer screens and a "Power Analysis Assignment" in the hope of at least completing the three main assignments due this midterm week, particularly since I, the mama, spent the majority of last week cuddling, consoling, holding hair, and changing bedsheets instead of getting a "head start". Additionally, I am short on patience and time, and trying so very, very hard to not lose myself (or any of that precious time) daydreaming about several days in Charleston--one of my favorite places to be. Of course, that also means I should somehow be packing a weeks worth of clothes and gear for myself and three small children--not to mention figuring out the logistics surrounding getting myself and the youngest, and just our clothes and gear, to Atlanta for a conference for the second half of the week.
So, for anyone interested here's my week schedule:
SUNDAY
spent nearly 7 hours working on research paper for policy class focused on the role of psychologists in national security. The other hours were spent attempting church with girls and my husband (most of which I chased the youngest around the atrium and dealt with the resulting temper tantrums after barring her way into the men's restroom on several occasions) and dinner at my husbands parents.
MONDAY
took girls to daycare, spent the entire 8 hour work day completing the policy paper followed by 4 hour policy class. Home by 10:30 pm.
TUESDAY
oldest through tantrums most of morning regarding the barrette I put in her hair--apparently on the wrong side, took girls to school, actually did some work for GA, attempted to outline concepts from social psychology class in which the final is to "integrate material from different sources and perhaps with different histories, theoretical sources, etc. The idea is to see the overlap, mutual implications. You are to do 3 of these with a maximum of 2 pages each. Each will analyze 3 concepts. Find three different concepts from different sources that are related." Get frustrated with the open endedness of this exam and write the current blog post. Go to class from 1-5, then assist in teaching Master's level course till 8. Go home and attempt to finish outlining social psych concepts.
WEDNESDAY
take girls to school (tantrums likely to occur), write social psych midterm--will likely take me till at least three. Begin to work on the 10 question power analysis assignment--this is second year of stats work and I'm over my head. Go home spend time putting girls to bed...maybe talk to husband for a few moments...continue to work on stats.
THURSDAY
make breakfast for girls, take them to gym so I can have two additional hours to complete stats work, consider then taking them home and doing early naps to have additional time. Go to class, turn in social psych final, pretend I read anything this week for next class, pick up poster for presentation at conference in Atlanta, slide finished stats under professors door and go to evening class.
FRIDAY
run around like a mad women, attempt to keep patience with girls, and pack for trip. Travel all night.
SATURDAY
soak up the beautiful sun and warmth and hospitality that is Charleston. Enjoy good food and a beautiful walk with my girls. and BREATHE.
**Attempt to eat relatively regularly and healthily throughout the week--there is a baby growing inside of me, after all**
Luckily this isn't how most weeks look...at least not this hectic. But, this is a reality and the likelihood this will occur as nicely as described is rather small...particularly with that flu bug continuing to hang around. So, wish me luck, send a few extra moments my way, and I hope anyone facing either of these terrible weeks (or both) is able to find a way to successfully wade through and find the time and chance to breathe at the end.
How do you etch out a few moments in stressful weeks to stop and breathe? How do you know you have pushed yourself too far--what is your breaking point where you think enough is enough, I need a breather?
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